\u201cNuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb kurr\u00eb moralisht e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb shoq\u00ebria t\u2019i inkurajoj\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb gjinin\u00eb ose seksin e tyre biologjik. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht kund\u00ebr m\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb Islamit. Megjithat\u00eb, ka disa njer\u00ebz q\u00eb lindin interseks dhe ata duhet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten e t\u00eb ndihmohen nga shoq\u00ebria, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund ta jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. Ata duhet t\u00eb mbrohen nga diskriminimi ose nga shkelja e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb tyre njer\u00ebzore.\u201d<\/p>\n
[Koh\u00ebt e fundit, \u00e7\u00ebshtja e identitetit gjinor \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer nga nj\u00eb debat shoq\u00ebror n\u00eb nj\u00eb ideologji q\u00eb po promovohet si norm\u00eb, duke e paraqitur gjinin\u00eb si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohet sipas ndjenj\u00ebs personale, pavar\u00ebsisht biologjis\u00eb. Duke qen\u00eb se k\u00ebto ide po hyjn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb shkollat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, nj\u00eb prind pyeti Kalifin e nderuar se si mund t\u2019i mbrojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb kur m\u00ebsojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201crrjedhshm\u00ebrin\u00eb gjinore\u201d. Ai u p\u00ebrgjigj si vjon]<\/p>\n
\u201cNga 365 dit\u00eb t\u00eb vitit, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb rreth 170 ose 180 dit\u00eb, dhe pastaj p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb koh\u00ebs jan\u00eb me ju, p\u00ebr rreth 180 deri n\u00eb 200 dit\u00eb. Kam th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste se duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebheni miq me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj; kam th\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb her\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrveproni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj; kam th\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb her\u00eb se kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj kthehen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ju duhet t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjeni pyetjeve t\u00eb tyre; kam th\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb her\u00eb se kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj m\u00ebsojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me gjinin\u00eb ose me ndonj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje tjet\u00ebr, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u2019i pyesni se \u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar dhe t\u2019u shpjegoni se disa gj\u00ebra mund t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019i kuptojn\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, por do t\u00eb mund t\u2019i kuptojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur t\u00eb rriten.<\/p>\n
Shpjegojuni realitetin e k\u00ebtyre \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve dhe se si ato jan\u00eb krijuar nga natyra. Tregojuni se ka dallime t\u00eb qarta biologjike q\u00eb Zoti i ka krijuar n\u00eb trupat njer\u00ebzor\u00eb; vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. Dallimet mes meshkujve dhe femrave nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshohen. Tregojuni se nj\u00eb mashkull mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebna e dikujt, por kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb bark. Njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb ngrejn\u00eb z\u00ebrin, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb absurde. Qarkullonte nj\u00eb rast se nj\u00eb grua shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb shkoi te doktori p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar konfirmimin e gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, nd\u00ebrsa doktori i tha: \u201cLe ta vendos\u00eb m\u00ebsuesja e kopshtit, ne nuk mund t\u2019jua themi.\u201d Vet\u00eb absurditetet e tyre po i kthejn\u00eb ata n\u00eb objekt talljeje. Po b\u00ebhen shaka p\u00ebr ta.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, duhet t\u2019u thoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj se njeriu do t\u00eb mbetet gjithmon\u00eb ajo gjini si\u00e7 e ka krijuar Allahu i Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm. Shpjegimi i k\u00ebsaj do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjeje nga ana e grave ahmedia, dhe sidomos “Vakifat-e-Nau” do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Shpjegojuni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj se Allahu i Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm ka krijuar meshkuj dhe femra; shpjegojuni dallimet biologjike dhe ve\u00e7orit\u00eb dalluese mes tyre. Shpjegojuni se n\u00eb \u00e7do specie t\u00eb kafsh\u00ebve ka dy gjini; secila ka aft\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe funksionet e veta, t\u00eb cilat nuk mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebrfillen. Kjo nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshohet thjesht duke e th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Koh\u00ebt e fundit, nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues iu drejtua nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi si \u201cai\u201d, por nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi tha: \u201cJo, sot jam \u2018ajo\u2019.\u201d T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, m\u00ebsuesi iu drejtua nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit si \u201cajo\u201d, dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi tha: \u201cJo, sot jam \u2018ai\u2019; pse m\u00eb quajte \u2018ajo\u2019?\u201d K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz vet\u00eb nuk e kuptojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Prandaj, ju do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni disa p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u2019ua shpjeguar k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj dhe t\u2019u tregoni se si k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz tani po b\u00ebhen objekt talljeje.<\/p>\n
Flisni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb me besim, jo me ngurrim, dhe ua shpjegoni k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj. Tani vet\u00eb njer\u00ebzit po ngren\u00eb z\u00ebrin kund\u00ebr k\u00ebtyre gj\u00ebrave.\u201d<\/p>\n