{"id":10544,"date":"2020-03-25T19:23:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T19:23:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ahmadiyya-islam.org\/al\/?post_type=articles&p=10544"},"modified":"2020-03-28T19:11:32","modified_gmt":"2020-03-28T19:11:32","slug":"7-zakonet-e-njerezve-me-efektivitet-te-larte","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/www.ahmadiyya-islam.org\/al\/artikuj\/7-zakonet-e-njerezve-me-efektivitet-te-larte\/","title":{"rendered":"7 zakonet e njer\u00ebzve me efektivitet t\u00eb lart\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"

P\u00ebrmbledhje libri<\/em><\/p>\n

Libri \u201c7 zakonet e njer\u00ebzve me efektivitet t\u00eb lart\u00eb <\/a>\u201d<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar nga Stephen Covey<\/a> (Stifen Kove).<\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr bestseller dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 15 milion\u00eb kopje t\u00eb tij jan\u00eb shitur. Konsiderohet si nj\u00eb nga librat m\u00eb me ndikim t\u00eb shekullit 20-t\u00eb. Ky lib\u00ebr flet p\u00ebr ndryshimin, pra t\u00eb ndryshosh veten p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb efektiv n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Autori shpjegoi 7 zakonet themelore t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve m\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm. Ai beson se m\u00ebnyra se si ne e shohim bot\u00ebn bazohet t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht n\u00eb perceptimet tona. N\u00ebse duam t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb bot\u00ebn, duhet ta fillojm\u00eb ndryshimin nga vetja. Dhe ndryshimi do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb pasi ne t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb perceptimin ton\u00eb. K\u00ebtu jan\u00eb 7 zakonet e njer\u00ebzve me efektivitet t\u00eb lart\u00eb:<\/p>\n

1. Jini proaktiv\u00eb<\/h2>\n

Mahatma Gandhi<\/strong> tha:<\/p>\n

Ata nuk mund t\u00eb marrin vet\u00eb-respektin ton\u00eb, n\u00ebse ne nuk ua japim atyre.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Zakoni i par\u00eb q\u00eb Stephen Covey na p\u00ebrshkruan \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jemi proaktiv\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb instinkt natyror q\u00eb b\u00ebn dallimin mes nesh dhe kafsh\u00ebve. \u00cbsht\u00eb aft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar ekzistenc\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur se si mund t\u2019i drejtohemi nj\u00eb problemi t\u00eb caktuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar me nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb caktuar.<\/p>\n

Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta, mund t\u00eb themi: duhet t\u00eb jesh proaktiv n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh efektiv. N\u00ebse nuk kemi njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb, kemi njer\u00ebz reaktiv\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb hedhin faje dhe pretendime. Ata thjesht nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faj\u00ebsimit t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ata mendojn\u00eb se problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb me bot\u00ebn e jashtme, por n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ky mendim i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi kryesor.<\/p>\n

Stephen Covey p\u00ebrkufizon fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi: \u201caft\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjur\u201d – aft\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj. Ai m\u00eb tej thot\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit me efektivitet shum\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb e njohin k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe ata nuk faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb rrethanat, kushtet ose kusht\u00ebzimin e sjelljes s\u00eb tyre. Ai thot\u00eb se sjellja e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb produkt i zgjedhjes s\u00eb vet\u00ebdijshme t\u00eb tyre, bazuar n\u00eb vlera, e jo nj\u00eb produkt i kushteve t\u00eb tyre bazuar n\u00eb ndjenja.<\/p>\n

2. Filloni, duke menduar fundin<\/h2>\n

Oliver Wendell Holmes tha:<\/p>\n

Ajo q\u00eb q\u00ebndron pas nesh dhe ajo q\u00eb q\u00ebndron para nesh jan\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb vogla, n\u00eb krahasim me ato q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb brenda nesh.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Zakon i dyt\u00eb sugjeron q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dini destinacionin p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloni udh\u00ebtimin tuaj. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur se ku doni t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz arrijn\u00eb fitore dhe lart\u00ebsohen n\u00eb grada. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb arritur t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb edhe t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb larta dhe burime t\u00eb shumta, por nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb p\u00ebr destinacionin e tyre. Ata i l\u00ebn\u00eb shpirtrat e tyre t\u00eb notojn\u00eb n\u00eb qiell. Ata nuk kan\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb qart\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb tyre. Stephen Covey e p\u00ebrshkruan k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante, duke p\u00ebrshkruar funeralin e vet. Ai na thot\u00eb t\u00eb imagjinojm\u00eb funeralin ton\u00eb dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt se \u00e7far\u00eb thon\u00eb ata? Si ju kujtojn\u00eb ata?<\/p>\n

Prandaj, s\u00eb pari vendosni se \u00e7far\u00eb doni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni kur t\u00eb rriteni? Vendosni dhe pastaj b\u00ebhuni ai. Imagjinoni destinacionin tuaj sepse duke pasur destinacionin n\u00eb mendje, mund t\u00eb ndiqni rrug\u00ebn e duhur q\u00eb nga dita e par\u00eb. Shanset p\u00ebr humbjen tuaj jan\u00eb minimale. Identifikoni rolet dhe synimet tuaja.<\/p>\n

3. Vendosni gj\u00ebrat e para n\u00eb radh\u00ebn e par\u00eb<\/h2>\n

Johan Volfgang G\u00ebte tha:<\/p>\n

Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb pak r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Zakon i dyt\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me p\u00ebrcaktimin e synimeve tuaja. Tani \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u2019i zbatoni ato sipas p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb zakoni num\u00ebr 3 flet. Ju sugjeron t\u00eb vendosni gj\u00ebrat e para n\u00eb vendin e par\u00eb. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t’u kushtojm\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi veprimeve tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb grafik dhe t\u00eb vendosni gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme s\u00eb pari, dhe m\u00eb pas m\u00eb pak t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmet. P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb efektiv, gjithmon\u00eb duhet t\u2019u japim p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi prioriteteve. Stephen Covey thot\u00eb se \u00e7el\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb jo t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktoni p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsit\u00eb nga ato q\u00eb keni n\u00eb programin tuaj, por t\u00eb planifikoni p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja.<\/p>\n

Kategorizoni synimet tuaja, sepse kjo sigurisht do t\u2019ju leht\u00ebsoj\u00eb pun\u00ebn. P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb efektiv, duhet t\u2019u jepni p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi gj\u00ebrave n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb vlerave t\u00eb tyre, e jo n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirave tuaja personale.<\/p>\n

Stephen Covey prezanton nj\u00eb kuadrat kohor, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ai kategorizon t\u00eb gjitha aktivitetet bazuar n\u00eb dy faktor\u00eb: urgjent<\/em> dhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm<\/em>. Duhet t\u00eb shpenzoni p\u00ebr detyra jo urgjente, pra t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ju nganj\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me raste urgjente.<\/p>\n

4. Mendoni p\u00ebr metod\u00ebn fitoj-fiton<\/h2>\n

Edwin Markham tha:<\/p>\n

Ne i jemi p\u00ebrkushtuar rregullit t\u00eb art\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb; le t\u2019i p\u00ebrkushtohemi k\u00ebtij rregulli n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Ky zakon ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me bashk\u00ebpunimin dhe p\u00ebrfitimin e nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb. T\u00eb dy fitojn\u00eb, askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb humb\u00ebs. Metoda fitoj-fiton (Win-Win) mund t\u00eb aplikohet vet\u00ebm kur p\u00ebrfshihen dy ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy pal\u00eb. Pra, duhen t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn dy persona. \u00cbsht\u00eb ideja p\u00ebr 50.50. Duke p\u00ebrcaktuar metod\u00ebn fitoj-fiton, Stephen Covey thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n

\u201c\u201cFitoj-fiton\u201d do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjet ose zgjidhjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobishme reciprokisht, dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqshme reciprokisht. \u201cFitoj-fiton\u201d sheh jet\u00ebn si nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim dhe jo si nj\u00eb aren\u00eb konkurruese.\u201d <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Ai m\u00eb tej thot\u00eb se \u201cFitoj-fiton\u201d nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb teknik\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb filozofi t\u00ebr\u00ebsore e bashk\u00ebveprimit njer\u00ebzor.<\/p>\n

Ai shpjegon se ekzistojn\u00eb 6 paradigma t\u00eb bashk\u00ebveprimit njer\u00ebzor.<\/p>\n

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  1. Fitoj-fiton<\/li>\n
  2. Fitoj-humb<\/li>\n
  3. Humb-fiton<\/li>\n
  4. Humb-humb<\/li>\n
  5. Fitoj<\/li>\n
  6. Fitoj-fiton ose s\u2019ka marr\u00ebveshje.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krijimi i situat\u00ebs fitoj-fiton. Me opsionin fitoj-humb ose humb-fitoj, nj\u00ebri patjet\u00ebr do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb humbje. Opsioni Fitoj-fiton ose s\u2019ka marr\u00ebveshje duhet t\u00eb konsiderohet opsioni rezerv\u00eb m\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm. Stephen thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n

    \u201cP\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar me opsionin \u201cfitoj-fiton\u201d, ju jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jeni i sjellsh\u00ebm, por edhe i guximsh\u00ebm.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    5. M\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb kuptoni tjetrin, sesa t\u00eb kuptoheni nga ai<\/h2>\n

    Blaise Pascal tha:<\/p>\n

    \u201cZemra ka arsyet e veta, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat arsyeja nuk di asgj\u00eb.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Zakoni i pest\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me komunikimin. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb parimi themelor i komunikimit efikas. Autori thot\u00eb q\u00eb ne d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb nj\u00eb fol\u00ebs dhe b\u00ebjm\u00eb mendjen q\u00eb e kemi kuptuar, nd\u00ebrsa nuk e kemi kuptuar. Ne as nuk lejojm\u00eb q\u00eb fol\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb fjal\u00ebn e tij. Stephen d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb na tregoj\u00eb se ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi t\u00eb patrajnuar n\u00eb d\u00ebgjim. Jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebr n\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuarit. Stephen Covey thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n

    \u201cKeni shpenzuar vite t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj duke m\u00ebsuar se si t\u00eb lexoni dhe si t\u00eb shkruani, dhe vite duke m\u00ebsuar se si t\u00eb flisni. Po \u00e7far\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr d\u00ebgjimin? \u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Ai m\u00eb tej thot\u00eb se p\u00ebrpjekja p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebmendje; kurse p\u00ebrpjekja p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuptuar k\u00ebrkon guxim.<\/p>\n

    6. Sinergjia ose bashk\u00ebpunimi<\/h2>\n

    N\u00eb fjalimin e tij inaugurues Presidenti George H. W. Bush tha:<\/p>\n

    \u201cUn\u00eb marr si udh\u00ebzues shpres\u00ebn e nj\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb: bashkimi n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat kritike, diversiteti n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, bujaria n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Kjo quhet sinergji (synergy). Termi sinergjia vjen nga greqishtja e lasht\u00eb, nga fjala \u03c3\u03c5\u03bd\u03b5\u03c1\u03b3\u03af\u03b1 sinergia nga sinergos, \u03c3\u03c5\u03bd\u03b5\u03c1\u03b3\u03cc\u03c2,\u00a0 q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cbashk\u00ebpunim\u201d.<\/p>\n

    Ideja themelore e zakonit num\u00ebr 6 \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kur punojm\u00eb n\u00eb grup, arrijm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa mund t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb ve\u00e7 e ve\u00e7. Shikoni, bashk\u00ebpunimi ose sinergjia \u00ebsht\u00eb kudo n\u00eb natyr\u00eb. Dhe kjo patjet\u00ebr ndihmon n\u00eb aktivitetet tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme, apo jo? Stephen na thekson q\u00eb t\u00eb sjellim sinergji p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunues dhe produktiv. \u00cbsht\u00eb faza e dyt\u00eb e filozofis\u00eb \u201cfitoj-fiton\u201d. Ka nj\u00eb th\u00ebnie n\u00eb n\u00ebn-kontinentin indian: 1 \u00ebsht\u00eb i barabart\u00eb me 1, por 1 plus 1 \u00ebsht\u00eb i barabart\u00eb me 11. K\u00ebshtu funksionon sinergjia. Kjo ju lejon t\u00eb hapni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja. Ju urdh\u00ebron t\u00eb punoni si grup dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb prej tij. Sinergjia \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur pun\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara.<\/p>\n

    7. Mprihni sharr\u00ebn<\/h2>\n

    Bruce Barton tha:<\/p>\n

    \u201cNganj\u00ebher\u00eb kur marr parasysh se \u00e7far\u00eb pasojash t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme vijn\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat e vogla \u2026., tundohem t\u00eb mendoj … nuk ka gj\u00ebra t\u00eb vogla.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Zakoni num\u00ebr 7, zakoni i fundit, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me rip\u00ebrt\u00ebritjen ose p\u00ebrkushtimin e koh\u00ebs ndaj vetvetes. Pra, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtoni pak koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb freskuar veten fizikisht, shpirt\u00ebrisht, mend\u00ebrisht dhe n\u00eb aspektin shoq\u00ebror. Stephen Covey p\u00ebrshkruan kat\u00ebr dimensione t\u00eb rip\u00ebrt\u00ebritjes:<\/p>\n

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    1. Dimensioni fizik: Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me kujdesin p\u00ebr trupin tuaj duke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb mir\u00eb, duke fjetur mir\u00eb dhe duke b\u00ebr\u00eb disa ushtrime p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.<\/li>\n
    2. Dimensioni shpirt\u00ebror: Q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebtij dimensioni \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i jepni shpirtit tuaj vlera t\u00eb udh\u00ebheqjes, duke praktikuar meditimin e p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm, duke komunikuar me natyr\u00ebn dhe duke u humbur n\u00eb muzik\u00eb.<\/li>\n
    3. Dimensioni mendor: Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me sh\u00ebndetin mendor dhe shk\u00eblqimin e tij. Kjo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet duke lexuar libra dhe let\u00ebrsi ose duke ndjekur ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajtje informuese.<\/li>\n
    4. Dimensioni shoq\u00ebror: Q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebtij dimensioni \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni lidhje kuptimplote. Kjo mund t\u00eb arrihet duke kuptuar deri n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb dhe duke kontribuuar n\u00eb projekte q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      SH\u00cbNIM:<\/strong> Jo \u00e7do pik\u00eb e k\u00ebtij postimi p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson pik\u00ebpamjet zyrtare t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj Uebfaqeje. Faleminderit.<\/em><\/p>\n

      LEXONI TEMA T\u00cb NGJASHME:<\/span><\/h2>\n